Divorce

I took mom to see a lawyer yesterday. I have no clue what she will end up doing, but she is leaning toward filing for the divorce to be able to move on with her life. I can't blame her but the bs he will mouth off because she does the filing may be more than any of us can deal with.

I am staying out at the house. what a strange feeling. Such a huge house for one person to ramble around in. No wonder mom was going crazy here. I have so much to do to begin getting rid of their belongings so we can get the house staged properly to sell. So many antiques and other junk!

I listened to the messages that were left on the machine to see if the realtor called and found out my father is having surgery on Monday. Great, do I tell his wife or not? Obviously he doesn't want her or any of his blood relatives to know, but what if something happens. Could I live with my decision if I didn't let mom know ahead of time? Such a flipping dilemma.

Better get moving. I'm taking mom to a bunch of new to us thrift stores this morning and then she wants to go to the girlfriends house to see dad and the dog. Joy, joy, fun, fun.....NOT